Carlos & Lexi Arnez

Real people rebuilding real lives—without pretending.


Carlos & Lexi Arnez

Quick update for you all 🙏

The vlog I’m currently working on took me two days to film, and today and tomorrow I have some important appointments that I can’t miss. Because of that, the next vlog will either drop late Thursday or sometime during the day on Friday.

Appreciate your patience and support as always. I’m moving as fast as I can and looking forward to getting this one out to you.

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You're Not Afraid Of Failure. You're Afraid Of Being Seen Trying,

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If there were no embarrassment…
No fear of looking delusional…
No financial constraints…
No “what will they think”…

What would you actually build?

That answer is usually where big thinking begins. 🧠✨

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Made in América, pero con piezas 100% boricuas 🇵🇷🔥

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Alright… reminder reminder 😄👇

We’re going LIVE tonight at 8PM ET.

No scripts. No pretending.
Just us, y’all, and whatever life decides to talk about.

If you’ve been meaning to catch a live
this is your sign. 👀✨

Hope to see you there.
#thefewaintbuiltforaverage

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Happy Sunday… YouTube Familia ❤️

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I was gonna go Live today. But my daughter is taking me out. Birthday Vlog Coming Soon!!!

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It’s midnight.
January 30th.
Chapter 47.

God… thank You.

Thank You for carrying me through darkness I don’t even have words for.
Through nights I didn’t think I’d survive.
Through confusion.
Through loss.
Through pain that didn’t show on the outside but nearly broke me on the inside.

There were seasons I was lost in my own head.
Fighting battles nobody saw.
Trying to stay alive in ways people don’t talk about.

My therapist once told me:
“You don’t even realize how strong you are.
You’ve been through so much.
You struggle with things that would take most people out…
and you’re still here.
You’re not in jail.
You’re not dead.
You’re in my office.
You’re still standing.”

That humbled me.

Because she was right.
And only You know how close I came sometimes.

God, You kept me.

When I could’ve turned bitter.
You made me gentle.
When I could’ve turned cold.
You kept my heart warm.
When I could’ve stopped caring.
You taught me empathy.

I’m still here.
By Your grace.

47 years.
Still breathing.
Still believing.
Still trying to live right.
Still trying to love people.
Still trying to walk in purpose.

I’m not perfect.
I’m not spectacular.
I’m just real.

And tonight…
I’m proud of who I am.

There was a time I couldn’t say that.

I’ve made mistakes.
I’ve fallen.
I’ve hurt.
I’ve learned the hard way.

But I’m not that man anymore.

If you knew me then…
Let me reintroduce myself now.

I’ve been rebuilt.
Reinvented.
Refined.

By fire.
By tears.
By prayer.
By grace.

Scars you can’t see.
Battles nobody knows.
But You saw all of it, God.
And You never left.

I wouldn’t trade lives with anyone.

I’ve traveled too far.
Survived too much.
Learned too deep.

I’m not where I’m going yet.
But I’m thankful for where I am.

And I’m ready now.

Ready to be who You called me to be.
Ready to live with conviction.
Ready to walk in purpose.
Ready to love louder.
Ready to lead with humility.
Ready to serve with my whole heart.

I’m not who I am because of where I’ve been.

I’m who I am because of where You’re taking me.

And after 46 years of pain, trauma, lessons, and growth…

I AM STILL HERE!!!!

Thank You, God.

For another chapter.
For another chance.
For another breath.

Amen. 🙏🏽🖤

#thefewaintbuiltforaverage

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We just lost power. 😔

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Gooood Morning Fam… Current Situation in ENC.

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