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🧠 You think you make logical decisions. Your brain knows otherwise.
Every "rational" choice you've ever made? It was driven by a tiny, primitive part of your brain that doesn't speak a single word of language.
In our new documentary, we dive deep into the limbic system—the ancient core of your brain that decides what you buy, who you trust, and how you feel before your conscious mind even wakes up.
We cover:
🔹 The patient who could think perfectly but couldn't make a single choice
🔹 How Nike and Apple speak directly to your emotions (without you noticing)
🔹 The 6-second pause that can save you from yourself
🔹 Why 95% of purchases are emotional, not logical
🎥 Watch the full video here: https://youtu.be/ytalBZ87dHg
💬 Let's debate:
Think of the last thing you bought that cost more than $50. Was it a need... or a feeling? Status? Security? Comfort? Drop it in the comments. 👇
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🚨 New Video: The Real Reason You're Stuck (It's Not Laziness)
You know that feeling? You have a huge goal. You know it matters. But instead of working on it, you're... cleaning your desk. Or reorganizing your notes. Or watching videos about productivity. 😅
I used to think I was broken. Turns out, my brain was just doing its job—protecting me from a perceived "threat."
In today's video, I break down:
✅ The neuroscience of why we procrastinate
✅ The 5-minute trick to start anything
✅ Why your environment matters more than willpower
✅ How to finally beat perfectionism
Watch now: https://youtu.be/waVzl-DfQpg
Question for you: What's ONE goal you've been putting off? Drop it in the comments—accountability starts here. 👇
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They keep telling you social media is dead.
But right now, 4.9 billion people are scrolling. Liking. Sharing. Buying.
Facebook alone has 2 billion daily active users. Instagram will generate $70 billion in ad revenue next year. TikTok users spend 95 minutes a day on the app.
Here's what the "social media is dead" crowd doesn't want you to know:
It's not dead. It just stopped being impressed by tricks.
The businesses winning today aren't the loudest. They're the most present. They reply to comments. They show the mess. They treat followers like humans, not metrics.
I just released a video breaking down the real data—including the candle company in Ohio that tripled revenue without a single viral video.
Link below. Watch it before you give up on your dream. 🕯️📈
https://youtu.be/v9xVALRtImw
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Caught yourself talking to yourself in the car today? 🚗🗣️
Before you feel embarrassed, here is the truth: That little voice in your head (or out loud) might actually be proof of higher cognitive function.
In our latest video, we break down:
🧠 Why "private speech" organizes your brain
🔑 How muttering helps you find lost items (yes, really)
⚡ The difference between productive self-talk and harmful rumination
Watch the full video here → https://youtu.be/1IwwEnsqt2Q
Let's settle this once and for all: When you talk to yourself, do you use "I" or "You"?
(Example: "I can do this" vs. "You can do this")
Drop your answer in the comments below! 👇
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A king once lost his entire evening over a fly.
He was at a feast. The finest soup was placed before him. And then—a fly landed.
He slammed his spoon. He shouted at his servants. He let one tiny insect destroy his peace.
The wise king hosting him said something he never forgot:
"It is not the fly that ruined your mood. It is your reaction to it."
This is the power of not reacting. And it might be the most important skill you ever learn.
I just made a video exploring this ancient story, the science behind it, and how you can apply it today.
Link below. Watch it before the next fly lands. 🪰
https://youtu.be/Jz6FbqkvAtA
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The Still Face Experiment changed how I see every conversation.
In 1975, researchers asked mothers to interact normally with their infants. The babies pointed, smiled, reached out. The mothers responded. Connection flowed.
Then, the mothers were asked to turn away—and when they turned back, their faces were completely blank.
No expression. No response.
Within seconds, the babies noticed. First confusion. Then desperation. Then… collapse. Their bodies went limp. Their hearts raced. Stress hormones flooded their tiny systems.
Physically, the mother was right there. But to the infant's brain, she had vanished.
Here's the part that keeps me up at night: we do this to each other every day.
Every time we scroll while someone talks. Every time we nod without listening. Every time our face goes blank while a friend shares their heart—their brain registers the same thing: I'm alone.
I made a video breaking down the science behind this—including what happens in YOUR brain when you truly see someone.
Link in comments. Watch it. Then go give someone your full attention today. 🖤
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