Coffee with Carey - Invidious

Welcome to Coffee with Carey—where we talk about dating, relationships, and all the weird, funny, hopeful stuff that happens when grown-ups try to find connection.

I’m Carey. I’m a dating coach and matchmaker with over a decade of real-world experience — not someone who crowned themselves a dating expert after two messy breakups and a $39 lighting kit from Amazon. I teach what I know and that’s from working with thousands of clients over the years.

This channel is for anyone who’s ever been ghosted by someone they weren’t even sure they liked, spent an hour writing a thoughtful message only to get “lol,” in response, or needed a reminder that texting someone “Good morning” doesn’t make them your soulmate.

You’re not doing it wrong. But you may be doing it wrong. Check out an episode or two and let’s figure it out.

Oh, and if you need something more personal? The link is around here somewhere.

Warmly,
Carey

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What’s your Valentine’s Day vibe this year?

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Yes, it’s just another day but I hope you have a good one! Take care of you.

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Someone ends the night with “I’ll call you.” Deep down, what do you really expect will happen next?

5 days ago | [YT] | 59

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What’s the one thing that most makes you want to give up on dating?

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What’s the easiest attraction killer?

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She accidentally flirted with a man in the grocery store today.

Him: *blocking the way to the bananas*
She: pardon me, can I get by?
Him: oh sorry look at me blocking the way. Let me move
She: you’re fine, no worries
Him: thank you, I work out.
She: lololol

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What’s the clearest sign someone isn’t ready to date?

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What actually builds attraction after the first few dates?

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Which early behavior predicts future frustration best?