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I swear every day I think I’ve seen it all.

Then an hour and a half into a 5 hour live BJ is sleeping. Does anyone say hey you’re pregnant, log off and go to bed? No.
Instead her kids are in the background making noises to wake her up, then one says “mom wake up” and f’ckn Reality tells the child that his mom isn’t sleeping along with BJ saying it. She is slurring and can’t read superchats or work the pause, play, anything. Craig calls her and then comes down to get the boys out of the room and sits there to talk loudly and wake her up. This is absolutely ridiculous. Everyone over here is supposed to tiptoe around this fragile pregnant woman when her own partner, cohost, chat are STILL trying to lie about her sleeping or “of course she’s sleepy she’s pregnant “

THEN GO TO BED!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I have honestly never in my life seen more ignorance. I truly can’t understand these people. FFS You want to know why people say it’s a cult??? Because that chat has been indoctrinated to never question if she’s sleeping or suggest that she log off and go to bed.

And then Craig is in the same room with her and tells her to grab him another beer. His pregnant wife. This is absolutely unreal. I have zero respect for anyone over there.


And BJ says again “I’m so tired of the RICO. How long can you make one person pay for that sh*t. Were what 2 years into it”
ARE YOU F’KNG JOKING???
HIW LONG ARE GRANNY AND BBQ GOING TO HAVE TO KEEP PAYING FOR IT AND ATTEND COURT HEARINGS!!!
Yall are about to get the longest audio post ever. People done lost their minds.

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3 days ago (edited) | [YT] | 405

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I have a question.

I hear people saying that they understand why BJ didn’t want to tell the internet about her pregnancy and how horrible it is for people to go at a pregnant woman.

So if BJ hadn’t told the internet and just went on as a non pregnant woman and still going at other creators would people still be defending her and saying how wrong it is that people are going at her?

I don’t understand people. Are there comments about the baby that I don’t agree with, yes. But her saying to the internet that she’s pregnant doesn’t make today any different than a Wednesday 2 weeks ago. Has BJ stopped the drama because she knew she was pregnant? No
So is she actually concerned about the drama hurting her pregnancy??

Oh also, BJ has multiple chronic health issues along with being a geriatric pregnancy at age 38. She would be considered high risk. She is morbidly obese (not shaming her, that’s the medical term for her weight) , she has asthma, she has lymphedema with a history of severe cellulitis, she is rh negative, she’s 38 years old and she’s sedentary.
This isn’t your average healthy, active, average weight 38 year old. So those out there saying it’s not a big deal if women don’t have prenatal care are spreading dangerous information. Also, BJ didn’t breastfeed she used cabbage leaves to dry up her milk. So no she won’t just have a baby and breastfeed it. Do you know how I know that???
You guessed it BJ told us.

But seriously everyone should suddenly stop talking about BJ because she’s pregnant but 2 weeks ago nobody knew and it wasn’t hurting the baby then?

BJ is solely responsible for what she does with her body, her baby, and her mouth. It’s not the internet’s responsibility. She has the choice to log off. Craig has the money to support them while she logs off, you heard that they don’t have many bills. And if he doesn’t go get a job.
I worked as an RN on a medical/surgical floor of the hospital and worked as a charge nurse every other weekend when I was pregnant with my third child and I was high risk with gestational diabetes and a premature birth at 32 weeks with my second child. I worked up until a week before my due date on a busy medical floor taking care of other people.
But BJ sitting in front of a computer with the option of ignoring or joining the drama and the option to just not login is stressful. So stressful that it might hurt her pregnancy. Ok. Sounds like the typical enabler’s point of view.

I’ll be doing an audio post soon about this bs.

4 days ago | [YT] | 322

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I know a lot of people are feeling a whole lot of feelings tonight. I am not going to speak on anything until I process for 24 hours and most of the reactive emotion has calmed.

What I want people to remember and think about moving forward is that the pregnancy is 6 months along. BJ has known a lot longer than we have and what have her actions been?? Just something to ponder. I see a lot of people making snap decisions and promised changes and making amends and calling truces. And that’s fine but have you really thought about what is taking place?
Idk…I’ll talk to yall soon 😘


Oh one more thing. I know there’s a lot of questions and thoughts about what might be and I have one request please…
Be very mindful of going around and speaking carelessly about things like miscarriage and abortion. Please remember that some in our community have been through experiences that were very painful and that we know nothing about and the haphazard way we are throwing these very serious situations around can be very hurtful. Thank you! 🫂❤️

1 week ago (edited) | [YT] | 339

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*** I forgot to add, everything on my channel is my opinion. I am not someone who thinks I am right above everyone else. It’s an opinion. Please let me know what you think about it, if you disagree please tell me why. I appreciate conversation and learning how others view things. As long as you are somewhat respectful please tell me your opinions and views!!

Does anyone remember how we got here? Let’s all remember where this community was before Sebastian Rogers went missing. We sure tf weren’t here.
I am not delusional about what road led this place to he!!. I am not going to believe for one second that we aren’t here because of a missing child case.


I don’t dislike Truth but I strongly disagree with his statement that relating all of this bullshit back to Sebastian is used to emotionally manipulate. Maybe every creator views things differently but I don’t feel it’s fair to say that other creators are emotionally manipulating viewers by saying that all of the f’ery going on is off of the back of a missing child. And yes the injunction is more about creators going at other creators but the basis was this:
1) the injunction wouldn’t have happened if a certain intelligence agency wasn’t involved
2) the intelligence agency wouldn’t be involved without a missing child
3) the basis of the injunction was that granny and BBQ were impeding the search for the missing child
4) the news stations broadcast it as social media creators interfering with the search
5) without the missing child granny wouldn’t have been anywhere around that intelligence agency that got her into litigation, she would have never met Tony so she wouldn’t be in that litigation, she wouldn’t be paying thousands of dollars to 2 attorneys, she would still be doing her daily morning streams about various topics without the toll on her mental health

Nonsense and Clue became part of this community because of Sebastian’s case. Jay came into this part of the community because of Sebastian. All of the focus brought on BJ’s f’ery was because of Sebastian’s case and a parent befriending her so then she went out and started attacking everyone who spoke negatively of that parent and that started the so called “dogpile “ on BJ.

All of this is how we got here today. All of it came from the start of this case. So yes ALL of the bullsh!t stemmed from there. And this is the blueprint for what NOT to do in a child’s case in the future. I think it’s very important to remember how this all started and how we arrived here so we can NEVER repeat it.

Because we have watched the unity and then the unraveling of a community because of how people got involved with parents, got emotional attachment to parents, used litigation based on the missing child to seek revenge, competition for views and who can get the info out first, a LOT of ridiculous behind the scenes f’ery, and a lot of pushing subscribers off of YouTube because they were so disgusted with what they were witnessing.

The messed up situation we are in right now is still the fallout of the case. There are still parents around the community, there are still frequent mentions of the parents and Sebastian while doing drama. Some want to ignore that, I will not. I want to remember ALL of the missteps that got us here and I want to NEVER see it happen again with a true crime case. I thought the Watts case was bad, I thought the Long case was bad, I thought summers case was bad, we keep upping the ante with each case. I don’t want to see what the next case will entail if it continues to worsen.

Where we are now is where we have landed after 2 years of some of the worst behavior, worst decisions, and some of the worst people who hid behind a fake name and persona. So I’m making it very clear that I am not being emotionally manipulative when I say all of the f’ery for the past 2 years has been done off the back of a missing child …..
And MORE IMPORTANTLY….
It overtook the most important thing of all….
SEBASTIAN ROGERS.

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1 week ago (edited) | [YT] | 198

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Hey guys! I’m only posting this because I have had a small setback due to a few unexpected health issues and an increase in the cost of my editing apps and software. I am fine without any help, it would be helpful but I can make it without any donations. There are people with much bigger needs in the community for sure. I’ve had some requests for me to do this in the past and I didn’t want to but circumstances change.
Your likes, comments, shares, support is all I really care about. That gets me through some rough days. So thank you to everyone who has supported me in any way. Please give to others first and please don’t feel obligated. I have really battled with myself over doing this. 😕


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2 weeks ago | [YT] | 309

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I cannot put into words what I’m feeling as I listen to Jones’n
She has been looking to blame Clue as soon as she heard about it on the disgusting channel that doxxed out Clue’s life. She left a comment wanting info on how Clue “supported the man who touched her daughter “!!! WANTING INFO

I will be speaking more on this when I calm down. What she is doing is absolutely victim blaming and victim shaming. She is the reason people don’t speak up. And you stupid ignorant bish Clue was the mother that so many of us NEEDED!!
Seriously some of the most disgusting rhetoric I have ever listened to and absolutely sickening to hear someone say I have some blame in what happened to me. After years of therapy I know now that this isn’t true but I know many people don’t know that yet so I’m telling you….
YOU ARE NOT TO BLAME!!

I’m not done. 🖕🖕

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3 weeks ago | [YT] | 446

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I give permission and welcome any creator to use any of my content. Nobody needs to ask permission. Even if I just released it, creators are welcome to it. I’m not monetized so I don’t care about the number of views, I just want to bring awareness so I definitely welcome anyone to use my content.
No need to ask!!!
I appreciate the support, I really do ♥️

3 weeks ago | [YT] | 471

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I’ve never seen so many adults moving like children. Anyone who thinks they are moving with stealth and fooling people with their fake kindness is delusional. People who have been in this community for a long time see it perfectly clear. People want to control who you associate with and then want to cut you off too. Because people in this community aren’t about “community “. Most of them are about isolating and control. Most of them are about cutting down. Most of them are about pretending to care. I see it clear as day.

I don’t do acquaintances out of convenience. If I like you I like you. You won’t find me behind you pushing the knife into your back. I see behaviors and I’m not stupid and I refuse to play stupid. I know how to play nice and I don’t like to cause waves but I’ve about had enough. And I don’t have to even say names, I guarantee everyone knows exactly what I’m talking about.

Also I hope people remember how litigation started … someone appeared out of nowhere onto QB panel wanting to share her GFM that she refused to tell anyone the purpose of. This community had no idea who she was or why Tony was pursuing her legally.

Just remember that you as a viewer do NOT have to pick a side, choose a creator, choose a friend, you can do whatever you want. Remember who you are and don’t let yourself be persuaded into following a group. Just step away if they are discussing something that you aren’t comfortable with or interested in. Do NOT become someone’s pawn used against another person to hurt them. Do what you want and watch who you want.

I am shocked at the channels that have me blocked. And they’ve had me blocked for months but I left all my videos up and I will continue to make videos with behavior that needs to be called out no matter who it’s for. I don’t need acceptance to do what I do. And my content is free for anyone to use, whether I’m blocked or not.

I can be a real grownup and if I have a fallout with a friend I don’t feel the need to run out and announce it and then proceed to spread out every negative thing I’ve ever heard or seen about them. I don’t feel the need to destroy others if I decide I don’t want to associate with them anymore. I’ve never seen so many people pretending to be adults but acting like children. The creators that have me blocked are people that nobody in the community would ever guess. You know why? Because just because they don’t like me I don’t have to tear them down. I don’t even act differently towards them. I don’t speak differently or make nasty videos about them. I still won’t announce it or act differently towards them. Why can’t we all behave that way? When a friendship or creator relationship ends why do we feel the need to create hate towards the other person? Every single time? You can’t ever just walk away and do your own thing?

I’m tired of the uncomfortable tension around here. Most everyone knows what it is. I just hope everyone who is a subscriber sticks to their own beliefs and feelings and keeps watching the creators that they enjoy no matter what the current rhetoric is. If people get mad at you because of who you support then they don’t actually care about you. I seriously have never seen so many people get joy from stabbing people in the back.

I will be over here protecting my peace. I see you. I feel the negativity. I get proof of things being spread privately. I hear the jabs at people that they supposedly like. It’s dirty af and I won’t participate. I’ll be here protecting my peace. I know who I am. ✌️

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1 month ago (edited) | [YT] | 268

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Bj, for the love of God this shirt is NOT about DV. You cannot be serious!! And if nobody over there is telling her she’s wrong then you’re clowning her because this has been around for YEARS!!!!
It has absolutely NOTHING to do with DV. It’s a joke about families who don’t all get together very often and then when they are all in the same house at Christmas it can get annoying and uncomfortable. Have you ever watched National Lampoons Christmas Vacation?? The family that gets annoyed at each other? I know you don’t gather with family so you have no idea what big family gatherings are like but google…it’s your friend. This has absolutely nothing to do with mocking DV. 🤣🤣🤣

Along with the numerous other absolutely ridiculous comments you made, this should be common sense. I can’t.

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