I am a Parenting Coach.
I recognize your strengths as parents and how to leverage them so that you learn effective ways of coping with your stress around parenting.


Roberta Shagam

๐—ฆ๐—ฐ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—ง๐—ถ๐—บ๐—ฒ ๐—•๐—ฒ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—•๐—ฒ๐—ฑ๐˜๐—ถ๐—บ๐—ฒ: ๐—ช๐—ต๐˜† ๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ง๐˜„๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—ก๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ๐˜€ ๐—ฎ ๐——๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ถ๐˜๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—–๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐˜„
Evening screen time can quietly steal your tweenโ€™s sleep and leave them tired, irritable, and unfocused the next day. Phones and tablets keep young brains wired when they should be winding down.

๐—•๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—ธ ๐—ฎ ๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ, ๐—ป๐—ผ-๐—ผ๐—ฏ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐Ÿฏ๐Ÿฌ-๐—บ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜‚๐˜๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—น๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜๐—ผ ๐˜๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ธ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ด๐—ต ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜โ€™๐˜€ ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ต๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ฒ๐˜…๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—บ, ๐—ฝ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐˜†๐˜€ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ.

A gentle digital curfew, clear routines, and calm connection before bed help tweens feel safer, sleep better, and start the day with more balance. Boundaries are not punishment. They are protection.

If bedtime has become a nightly struggle, support is available.

๐—ฅ๐—ผ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ฎ ๐—ฆ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ด๐—ฎ๐—บ ๐—ฃ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—•๐—ฒ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—–๐—ผ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ต
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Roberta Shagam

The New Year often brings a quiet hope to do better as parents. To respond with more patience, clarity, and confidence when big emotions show up at home.

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robertashagamparenting.com/new-year-new-beginningsโ€ฆ

A ๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ, ๐—ป๐—ผ ๐—ผ๐—ฏ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐Ÿฏ๐Ÿฌ-๐—บ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜‚๐˜๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—น๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต ๐—บ๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐—ณ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—น๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—ธ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—บ, ๐—ฝ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐˜€๐˜‚๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜.

In this blog, I share gentle parenting lessons inspired by Winnie the Pooh and how understanding, connection, and emotional safety help children thrive.

Roberta Shagam Parenting Behavioral Coach
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Roberta Shagam

Parenting expert Roberta Shagam offers practical guidance on creating balance, strengthening connection, and finding calm amid the demands of modern family life.


๐ˆ ๐š๐ฅ๐ฐ๐š๐ฒ๐ฌ ๐›๐ž๐ ๐ข๐ง ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐š ๐Ÿ๐ซ๐ž๐ž, ๐ง๐จ-๐จ๐›๐ฅ๐ข๐ ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐Ÿ‘๐ŸŽ-๐ฆ๐ข๐ง๐ฎ๐ญ๐ž ๐จ๐ง๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐ž ๐ฆ๐ž๐ž๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐ . ๐ˆ๐ญโ€™๐ฌ ๐š๐ง ๐จ๐ฉ๐ž๐ง, ๐ซ๐ž๐ฅ๐š๐ฑ๐ž๐ ๐œ๐จ๐ง๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐ฐ๐ก๐ž๐ซ๐ž ๐ฐ๐ž ๐œ๐š๐ง ๐ญ๐š๐ฅ๐ค ๐š๐›๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ ๐จ๐š๐ฅ๐ฌ.



Yet, by slowing down and intentionally embracing small moments

Roberta Shagam Parenting Behavioral Coach
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Roberta Shagam

Grandparents can be a powerful source of love, stability, and emotional safety for children.

๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐˜„๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—ธ ๐—ฎ ๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ, ๐—ป๐—ผ-๐—ผ๐—ฏ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐Ÿฏ๐Ÿฌ-๐—บ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜‚๐˜๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—น๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด

Grandparents' presence, stories, and patience help children feel grounded, valued, and connected across generations. When roles are clear and relationships are respectful, this bond becomes a lasting gift for the whole family.

Roberta Shagam Parenting Behavioral Coach
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Roberta Shagam

If perfectionism or shame has been weighing on you, you are not alone.

๐—•๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—ธ ๐—ฎ ๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ, ๐—ป๐—ผ-๐—ผ๐—ฏ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐Ÿฏ๐Ÿฌ-๐—บ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜‚๐˜๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—น๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต ๐—บ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐˜๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ธ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ด๐—ต ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ณ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด.

Together, we will discover how embracing imperfection can become one of the greatest gifts you give your child.

โ€” Roberta Shagam โ€“ Parenting Behavioral Coach
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Roberta Shagam

For many children, losing a pet is their first experience of grief.

๐—•๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—ธ ๐—ฎ ๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ, ๐—ป๐—ผ-๐—ผ๐—ฏ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐Ÿฏ๐Ÿฌ-๐—บ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜‚๐˜๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—น๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฒ๐˜…๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜„ ๐—œ ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐˜€๐˜‚๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ท๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜†. ๐Ÿ“ž +1 848-391-8382

When we slow down and validate their feelings, we teach emotional safety and resilience that lasts.

Roberta Shagam Parenting Behavioral Coach

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Roberta Shagam

Cultural diversity should be celebrated, not feared.
Children are naturally open-minded. They see friends, not differences. Bias is learned over time, and parents play a key role in shaping how children understand and respect others.

When we model acceptance, share facts instead of fear, and encourage curiosity, children learn empathy, fairness, and respect. These early lessons help build stronger families and a more harmonious world.

If cultural differences within your family or community feel challenging to explain, support is available in a safe, non-judgmental space.

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Roberta Shagam

The words we speak to our children matter. They shape how kids see themselves, how they manage emotions, and how they connect with others. Even small moments โ€” comfort, correction, frustration, repair โ€” leave a lasting imprint.

When we choose words that guide rather than shame, we strengthen trust and emotional safety. And even when we get it wrong, repair is always possible.

If your home is struggling with communication, big feelings, or repeated conflict, you donโ€™t have to navigate it alone.

๐—ฆ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฑ๐˜‚๐—น๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ ๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ ๐Ÿฏ๐Ÿฌ-๐—บ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜‚๐˜๐—ฒ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€๐˜‚๐—น๐˜๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฒ๐˜…๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜„ ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ณ๐˜‚๐—น ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—บ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐—ณ๐˜‚๐—น ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—น๐˜€ ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐˜€๐˜‚๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ณ๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—น๐˜†.

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Roberta Shagam

If you wish, parenting feels more peaceful and less stressful; we can start today.
๐—ฆ๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต ๐—ฎ ๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ ๐—ป๐—ผ-๐—ผ๐—ฏ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐Ÿฏ๐Ÿฌ-๐—บ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜‚๐˜๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป.
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Seven phrases grandparents say that kids remember forever โ€” simple words that build trust and emotional safety.

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๐Ÿ”— robertashagamparenting.com/grandparents-words-thatโ€ฆ

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Roberta Shagam

Kids learn more from what we do than what we say.
When parents model calm behaviour, honesty, and kindness, children absorb it deeply.
Roberta offers a free 30-minute online parenting support call.
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