Coach Gavin Cotton

We need to have an honest conversation about "Chemistry." 🧪

In my latest video (https://youtu.be/8_DXU8D3qSI), I broke down the biology of Limerence vs. Love. Most of you think "The Spark" (Butterflies, anxiety, obsession) is a sign of a soulmate. Science says it is a sign of the Sympathetic Nervous System entering "Fight or Flight." You are sensing danger, not destiny.

Real Love is Parasympathetic. It releases Oxytocin. It slows your heart rate. It feels safe. It often feels "boring" to an addict.

Be honest with me (and yourself): Looking back at the most "intense" relationship of your life (the one that broke you), what was the dominant chemical driver?

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