Lisa Bilyeu

Moving on isn’t giving up.
It’s finally choosing yourself.

3 hours ago | [YT] | 2,368

Lisa Bilyeu

Tom and I first thought we would be a summer
fling. Well 25 years of celebrating Valentines Day
together, I think its now safe to say.... we're serious
about eachother lol But in all seriousness theres so
much to say about our relationship but the best way I
can sum it up is by saying... even with the alllll the
things I have done in my life like building the billion
dollar company Quest, Building Impact Theory and
Women of Impact and writing my #1 book Radical
Confidence.... my relationship with my hubby is by
FAAAAAR, HANDS FRIKIN DOWN the hardest and
MOST rewarding thing in my entire life!

Yep! Its INCREDIBLY rewarding but I aint gonna lie....
its also bloody hard growing, changing and seeing your
partner do the same, ALLLLL while trying to stay
aligned and connected! I mean think about it! I met Tom
when I was 21 years old!!! Since then I went from
saying I wanted 4 children to then saying I didnt want
any. Talk about trying to navigate THAT change! And
let's be real... another man could have left me for that!
And on the flip side.... Tom who was 24 when I met
him, went from being someone who was SUPER
attentive (writing me poetry and songs for me) to
working 110 hour weeks and me eating dinner alone 6
days out of 7. So let's also be real... another woman
could have left him for that "neglect"!

So when you see us happily together, its because we
have chosen to make our relationship our biggest
priority. We have chosen to say the hard things to each
other even when it was easier not to. We have chosen
to set boundaries with each other. We have
communicated endlessly until we can repeat each
others view points. We dont agree on a lot of thing but
we choose to respect each others opinions. We go to
bed angry knowing its the best thing for us. We never
ever make promises we can't keep. And while there is
so much more, I will end with this one.... we never
EVVVVER (like ever ever) joke about divorce. Not even
if it would make for a funny joke! NOPE! That word is
what we call "voldemort" in the Bilyeu household! Why?
Because safety and security in our relationships is our
highest value!

Now, when you can have THAT much transparency, clarity and communication.... no matter what issues and problems surface (because oooooh they are coming!) you KNOW that come Feb 14th, you'll have your Valentine there to kiss! So this post goes out to my hubs ‪@TomBilyeu‬! I choose you!

Here's to another 50 more me baby!!! Love, your Yinega!

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1 day ago | [YT] | 3,323

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Some friendships are for a season and others are for a lifetime. And your girls that are for LIFE are the ones that you can navigate ANYTHING life brings at you. Single. Married. Kids. No kids. Career highs, and everything in between! And yes that does include the “what am I doing?” moments! And these ladies right here ar my ride or die!

I never thought I could make friends so late in life.

I never thought I could have friend who have different views and STILL respect each other.

I never thought I could be in a friend group with ZERO gossip and backstabbing

I just ever thought. And yet here I am, showing how wrong I was!

So in the spirit of Galentiens Day, send that text, make that girl date, embrace being vulnerable, risk being "seen", and maybe just maybe you'll find other women who are your ride or die!!!

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2 days ago | [YT] | 2,187

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🚨 Thursday, Feb 12 | 4–5 PM PST | YouTube Live 🚨

JOIN THE LIVE HERE👉 youtube.com/live/1KsdU52qouc?feature=share

Why do we only start listening after the damage is done?
After women are dismissed.
After the story becomes too loud to ignore.

Today's LIVE isn’t about gossip. It’s about the pattern.

It’s about what happens when powerful names surface in connection with the Epstein files, and you realize some of those people aren’t strangers! They’re people you’ve met. People who sat at your table, drank your coffee, and looked like “good guys.”

And then new information comes out.

We’re going to talk about what the files have reignited culturally, the public reaction when powerful men face allegations, the optics of celebrity loyalty in moments like Beyoncé standing by Jay-Z at the Super Bowl, and the very real consequences that follow women who speak up.

Women like Virginia Giuffre, who showed extraordinary courage, and journalists like Savannah Guthrie, whose family faced targeting after she interviewed survivors.

Why are women still asked for more proof instead of being offered more protection?

Why do we wait for headlines before we take voices seriously?

And how do we stop this cycle from repeating?

This conversation is about power.
About influence.
About who gets protected, and who carries the cost.

💬 Drop your questions now. We’ll be answering them live.

3 days ago | [YT] | 3,193

Lisa Bilyeu

This is so hard to talk about but.... I wont run from it. So here it is...

Behind the scenes in private you have NO IDEA how many women whisper to me that either THEY voted for Trump OR their PARTNER did but they cant publicly talk about it! The judgments is SO strong that no one wants to utter a word about either side for fear of abandonment or hate. And look I get it! Since my hubby publicly said he was going to vote for Trump, well its been frikin tough. Tough for myself to have the talk with him about why he made that decision. Tough because others judge ME for HIS decisions. I have seen first hand what happens when a feminist is married to a man who voted for Trump!...

Public backlash.
Friends stop talking to you.
Comments calling her a hypocrite.
People waiting (with GLEE) for the divorce announcement.
But I still love my husband. I still respect how he shows up as a man. I still admire him and his dedication to me. I just dont admire his DECISION. But that doesn't mean you throw the baby out with the bath water so to speak! So how the hell have we navigated our difference when all the world wants to do is pull you apart for your differences? Well thats what you will learn today!

Yep statistically couples in mixed-party couples face a 38% higher risk of separation. Throw on top the fact that we have different religious beliefs and well our survival rate just plummeted even more! So how have we lasted for so long?

In this episode of Women of Impact, I sit down with my husband, Tom Bilyeu, to talk honestly and unapologetically about how we’ve stayed deeply in love despite being WILDLY different.

💥 In this conversation, we break down:

How we handle political differences WITHOUT resentment
Why sharing this ONE thing is more important than shared opinions
How to actually talk about religion, politics, sex, and power without shutting each other down
“To betray yourself is to doom the marriage from the start.” - Tom Bilyeu

This episode isn’t comfortable.
It’s real.

And it’s proof that love doesn’t require sameness, it requires courage.

👉 Watch the full episode here: bit.ly/woi-tom-bilyeu-ytpost

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4 days ago | [YT] | 1,171

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No grand gestures required.
Effort tells on people every time.

5 days ago | [YT] | 7,224

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Sometimes love leaves… and honestly? Good. 😂
Because loving the wrong person is exhausting, expensive, and overall excruciating.

I’ll take peace, laughter, and my self-respect over “potential” any day.
Losing the wrong one isn’t heartbreak, homie.
It’s a refund.

6 days ago | [YT] | 9,587

Lisa Bilyeu

Funny how getting older changes your taste buds AND your tolerance levels 😂

1 week ago | [YT] | 7,842

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The REAL flex is finding someone who's still your person when the flowers are dead, the dress is packed away, and life gets real.

Now THAT is a keeper!

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1 week ago | [YT] | 6,362

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SAVE this as a reminder for the next time someone pushes back on your boundaries!!💪

1 week ago | [YT] | 6,291