Can Women Have It All? Let’s Talk Love, Success, Ego & Power...

Can Black women have it all—love, marriage, kids, success, and peace—or does patriarchy make that impossible, In this live discussion we break down why “just pick better men” is lazy advice, explore celebrity case studies and examine how women’s success shifts power dynamics, challenges masculinity, triggers ego, and exposes the limits of individual choice in a patriarchal system, this conversation dives into misogynoir, marriage, gender roles, masculinity, emotional labor, power, relationships, and what actually needs to change for Black women to truly thrive. 🛎Make sure to LIKE 👍, COMMENT 💬, SUBSCRIBE ‼️ 🛎Please Don’t Forget to Click the Notification Bell, So You Won’t Miss Any Future Uploads. ♡ t i m e s t a m p s 0:00 start 1:59 introduction 4:08 women are choosing their own path 4:55 inspired by Ayesha Curry's podcast comments 5:36 addressing the agist programming 6:33 if we knew, we wouldn't have rushed 8:46 channeling creation energy into passion projects 9:13 caveats of being high achieving for women 11:54 disclaimer for celebrity case studies 12:50 High Achieving Women dynamics 14:12 High Achiever: Beyonce 19:27 High Achiever: Whitney Houston 23:33 High Achiever: Cardi B 27:18 break to get pizza out of the oven 27:57 High Achievers dating down: Nicki Minaj 31:48 pitfalls of dating lower 33:24 High Achievers dating down: Halle Bailey 35:29 We never discussed dating growing up 36:40 High Achievers dating down: Rihanna 38:36 Our Achilles Heel 40:15 High Achievers dating down: Kandi Burruss 42:55 High Achievers dating down: Simone Biles 45:00 High Achievers dating down: Keke Palmer 45:55 Exploring Building in Relationships 49:39 the moment you start pitying the man... 51:39 men are successful because they have helpmates 52:33 Revisiting Ayesha Curry 54:03 Hard work going unnoticed: Coretta Scott King 54:53 Eslanda Robeson and more 57:34 Living on their on Terms: Lori Harvey 58:33 Living on their on Terms: Tracee Ellis Ross 59:48 Living on their on Terms: Oprah 1:00:30 Women who have it all 1:03:41 Common themes in positive relationships 1:04:41 You owe it to yourself to create and achieve ♡ ｐｒｏｄｕｃｔｓ ｍｅｎｔｉｏｎｅｄ my amazon store: www.amazon.com/shop/lilianshekinah ♡ ｃｏｎｎｅｃｔ ｗｉｔｈ ｍｅ instagram: lilianshekinah ♡ ｂｕｓｉｎｅｓｓ ｉｎｑｕｉｒｉｅｓ contact.lilianshekinah@gmail.com ♡ f a q ♡ Camera: iPhone 15 Pro & Sony ZV1 ♡ m u s i c ♡ Intro & Outro: 318tae - Honest ♡ ａｆｆｉｌｉａｔｅ ｄｉｓｃｌａｉｍｅｒ ♡ This video is not a sponsored video. All thoughts are my own. Some of the provided links are affiliate, meaning I receive a small commission on a purchase without additional cost to you, if you choose to make a purchase through them. Thank you for your support. xoxo #BlackWomen #CanBlackWomenHaveItAll #DatingAndRelationships #MarriageAndMoney #Patriarchy #Masculinity #PickBetterMen #WomenAndPower #CelebrityRelationships #CardiB #Ciara #MeghanMarkle #Beyonce #SerenaWilliams #Misogynoir #ModernDating #Feminism #GenderRoles #BlackLove #WomenSuccess #MillennialTalk #GenZTalk