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Lilly Elle

Feminine Discipline | Beauty | Velvet Rope Theory
Elevated standards. Magnetic presence. Intentional living.

Welcome to Lilly Elle.

I teach feminine discipline, beauty rituals, and the philosophy behind the Velvet Rope Theory — a framework I created to help women control access to their time, energy, and presence.

This channel is for women who are done with low standards, chaotic energy, and diluted power.

Here, we talk about:

• Selective access and boundaries
• Magnetic presence and feminine authority
• Beauty as ritual and discipline
• Elevated standards in relationships and lifestyle

The Velvet Rope Theory is simple:
Not everyone gets access.
Presence is power.
Discipline is seductive.

If you are ready to move intentionally, raise your standards, and embody controlled feminine energy — you are in the right place.

Private Consults and 3-Day Live Challenge available below.

– Lilly Elle

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12:12

Discipline Is More Attractive Than Softness

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13:25

The Velvet Rope Theory Explained (How to Structure Access)

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12:25

Not Everyone Deserves Access to You-The Velvet Rope Theory

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Shared 2 days ago

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5:32

How I Stopped Feeling Insecure (and Built Real Confidence as a Woman)

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Shared 3 days ago

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6:16

You’re Not Behind in Life — You’re Becoming Her

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Shared 4 days ago

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6:29

If You Feel Behind in Life, Watch This (You’re Not Late — You’re Becoming)

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Shared 5 days ago

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8:41

The Soft Girl Routine That Changed My Confidence (How I Started Feeling Polished Every Day)

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Shared 6 days ago

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11:09

How to Stop Comparing Yourself to Other Women (and Finally Feel Enough)

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Shared 1 week ago

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9:32

Why You Don’t Feel Confident (And It’s Not Your Looks)

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Shared 1 week ago

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6:36

How to Rebuild Your Confidence in 3 Days (Free Live Challenge)

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Shared 1 week ago

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9:21

How to Become the Woman Everyone Respects (Without Trying Hard)

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Shared 1 week ago

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4:52

How to Stop Overthinking at Night & Finally Feel Calm and Secure

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Shared 1 week ago

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6:38

It’s Not Your Looks — It’s Your Energy (Why You Feel Invisible in Rooms)

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Shared 1 week ago

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7:01

Emotional Discipline: The Feminine Trait Nobody Talks About (But Changes Everything)

Lilly Elle

Shared 1 week ago

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5:15

Why Your Life Feels Chaotic (and How Polished Women Stay Calm

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Shared 2 weeks ago

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5:49

Soft Girls Win Too: How to Be Feminine AND Respected

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Shared 2 weeks ago

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5:24

Stop Feeling Invisible: How to Become That Girl Without Changing Who You Are

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Shared 2 weeks ago

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9:58

Femininity Is Not Loud — It’s Grounded

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Shared 2 weeks ago

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5:34

Soft Women Need Structure More Than Motivation

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Shared 2 weeks ago

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6:51

Why Over-Explaining Is a Confidence Leak

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Shared 2 weeks ago

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4:42

You’re Not Intimidating — You’re Unavailable to Nonsense

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Shared 2 weeks ago

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5:43

Pretty Is Common. Composed Is Rare.

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Shared 3 weeks ago

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7:08

Why Healing Didn’t Fix Your Life (And What Actually Will)

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Shared 3 weeks ago

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7:51

Softness Without Standards Is Why Women Stay Stuck

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Shared 3 weeks ago

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5:45

Feminine Energy Isn’t Lazy — It’s Strategic

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Shared 3 weeks ago

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5:04

Your Appearance Is Speaking Before You Do

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Shared 3 weeks ago

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6:18

High-Value Women Are Not Always Nice

Lilly Elle

Shared 3 weeks ago

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9:26

Healing Isn’t Crying — It’s Choosing Better

Lilly Elle

Shared 3 weeks ago

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8:35

Men Don’t Confuse You — Your Standards Do

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Shared 4 weeks ago

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7:02

Soft Life Isn’t Soft If You’re Still Anxious

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Shared 4 weeks ago

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5:09

Pretty Is Not Enough — And That’s Why Most Women Stay Broke

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Shared 4 weeks ago

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6:22

Pretty Isn’t Power — Presence Is (The Feminine Shift No One Talks About)

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Shared 1 month ago

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5:08

Why Over-Explaining Is Costing You Respect (And How Soft Women Stop Doing It)

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Shared 1 month ago

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7:30

Soft Women Are Not Weak — They’re Just Unavailable to Chaos

Lilly Elle

Shared 1 month ago

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8:41

WHY CALM WOMEN ALWAYS WIN

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Shared 1 month ago

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6:31

PRETTY IS POWER — WHEN YOU USE IT CORRECTLY

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Shared 1 month ago

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5:55

SOFT WOMEN DON’T STRUGGLE — THEY STRATEGIZE

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Shared 1 month ago

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11:49

Why Feminine Women Do Not Rush Intimacy

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Shared 1 month ago

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8:47

My Dating Rules as a Strict Girl

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Shared 1 month ago

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6:35

You’re Allowed to Just Say Thank You

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Shared 1 month ago

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10:36

When You Choose Yourself, You Stop Competing

Lilly Elle

Shared 1 month ago

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12:17

Feminine Women Don’t Chase — They Attract | How to Stop Overgiving & Start Receiving

Lilly Elle

Shared 1 month ago

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12:59

Soft Beauty, Soft Life: How Self-Care Starts With You | Lilly Elle

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Shared 1 month ago

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13:14

Hair Confidence Is Real Confidence

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Shared 1 month ago

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13:08

Soft Beauty, Soft Life Your Soft Transformation Starts Here

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Shared 1 month ago

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5:04

Stop Acting Humble — It’s Hurting You.

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Shared 1 month ago

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7:51

Soft Girl Mystery: Why Feminine Women Don’t Overshare (and Still Get Respect)

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Shared 1 month ago

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10:21

Feminine Confidence: Stop Over-Explaining — Let Them Wonder

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Shared 1 month ago

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11:50

Soft Girl Energy: How to Radiate Confidence Without Being Aggressive

Lilly Elle

Shared 1 month ago

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11:15

Soft Girl Energy: How to Start the New Year Confident & Feminine

Lilly Elle

Shared 1 month ago

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11:05

Soft Girl Boundaries: How To Receive More By Saying Less

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Shared 1 month ago

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16:53

Soft Girl Energy: How to Let Him Chase You Without Chasing

Lilly Elle

Shared 1 month ago

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12:36

“Soft Boundaries: Saying No Without Explaining Yourself”

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Shared 1 month ago

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15:02

Reclaim Your Power & Choose the Life You Deserve | Feminine Energy, Soft Power, Healing

Lilly Elle

Shared 1 month ago

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10:24

Soft Girl Detachment: How to Stop Over-Investing & Stay Feminine

Lilly Elle

Shared 1 month ago

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20:18

Soft Girl Boundaries: How to Keep Your Peace & Still Be Desired

Lilly Elle

Shared 1 month ago

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11:47

Setting Standards Without Chasing — Let Him Step Up | Soft Girl Energy

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Shared 1 month ago

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11:44

Why Feminine Women Don’t Rush Relationships

Lilly Elle

Shared 1 month ago

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11:33

Soft Girl Intuition: How to Trust Your Feelings Without Overthinking

Lilly Elle

Shared 1 month ago

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12:16

Why Men Test Soft Women (And How to Pass Without Reacting)

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Shared 1 month ago

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